tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53236024619583687542024-03-13T10:46:25.437-07:00我靠“获取”以谋生,却因“付出“而生活”Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.comBlogger98125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-16636750183078680722017-04-21T20:57:00.001-07:002017-04-21T21:05:03.867-07:00Shanice 进入二年级的不同生活层面<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-82546594225357064722017-04-21T20:55:00.004-07:002017-04-21T20:55:59.657-07:0020042017 妈妈写有关Shanice的婚姻观<span></span><br />
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<b><span data-offset-key="bsdo2-0-0"><span data-text="true">那时就是会一直胡思乱想,然后抱着可爱的shanice,告诉自己,如果她以后没有遇到好的男人,就不用嫁人!!!</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="19apc-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 当然,后来慢慢理性起来,就告诉自己我要开始为shanice的婚姻祷告。有比较好的朋友知道了,就笑我说。。。。你有没有太好笑一点?</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="8jn48-0-0"><span data-text="true">哈哈,现在想起来,那时的我真的太好笑,初为人母真的很敏感很神经质。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="di4pa-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 在她三岁时,我就开始和她聊聊这方面的事情。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="8cubb-0-0"><span data-text="true">她很小就知道她将来要的伴侣的条件是什么。其中一条一定要是基督徒。因为我知道,不一样的信仰在婚姻里的破口也是蛮多,挑战也很大。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="4qspo-0-0"><span data-text="true">当然第二个条件就是大学才可以。。。(当然我也知道这不是我能控制的范围。)只是给指示。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="dfb4i-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 今年她九岁了。感觉上慢慢有男生欣赏她。有时班上同学会笑来笑去说。。。。谁喜欢谁。。。。她很生气,很生气,有时还会为这样的事情哭起来。她觉得这是一种羞辱。因为她觉得不可能的事情,干嘛要一直笑她和谁谁谁在一起。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="2ban6-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 几个星期前在主日学。。。也有几位男生一直叫她美女,美女。。。她无动于衷。我说。。。。。他们叫你为什么你不理睬别人?她说:“妈妈,我干嘛要理睬他们?他们叫美女!不是叫我,我的名字叫shanice,不叫美女!”我听了晕倒。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="d1qo5-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 最近,其中一个小男生来到我面前说:“姨姨,shanice是你的女儿吗?”我说:“是!”他说:“你可以告诉她,可以礼貌一点吗?因为我叫她都不理睬人家,没有礼貌也。”我:“er。。。。。这。。。。。”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="4uprm-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 最近这个小男生说:“姨姨,你可以帮我这些礼物交给她吗?那个戒指,那个放笔盖上面的东西,那个糖果,我故意选。。。粉色的,因为女生应该比较喜欢粉色。。。。”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="44rq7-0-0"><span data-text="true">我:“。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="fgtn5-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 昨天,这小男生问我,你有把东西交给shanice吗?我说有。。。但是她没空看哦。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="c3jv7-0-0"><span data-text="true">他说:“是有多忙啊?!”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="4alrf-0-0"><span data-text="true">我晕。。。。。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="8t4m6-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 今天。。。我又看到他。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="3ln0p-0-0"><span data-text="true">他说:“姨姨,你有告诉她我是谁吗?”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="e239u-0-0"><span data-text="true">我说:“有!但是她不懂你是谁?”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="ebbl3-0-0"><span data-text="true">这小男生竟然落寞了几秒钟。。。。。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="id56-0-0"><span data-text="true">然后我说。。。。又担心伤了这个小男孩的心。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="4ubqm-0-0"><span data-text="true">我说:“er。。。。。你知道你们还小,不能够有特别的那种。。。。欣赏吗?”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="2qm2h-0-0"><span data-text="true">他说:“姨姨。。。哦。。。我知道,只是,不是你想象中的那种关系。我妈妈也是告诉我要大学才可以想那样的东西。我只是现在想和她做朋友,普通朋友。。。。这样明白吗?”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="fjqbj-0-0"><span data-text="true">我。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="9rdg5-0-0"><span data-text="true"> 你们明白吗?还是我太复杂了?</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="as0un-0-0"><span data-text="true">我竟然有羞愧的感觉!!!!!!!无地自容啊!!!</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">今天是Stuart的六岁生日。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">昨晚告诉他他明天生日。我家婆说他就在睡前一直唱Happy Birthday 祝福他自己。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">今天早上,老师说,他好像知道是自己生日,整个早上都非常安静的等待生日party的到来。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">********</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">从昨天开始,爸爸和妈妈负责采购要预备的食物。</span></b><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; display: inline; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;"><b><br />今天早上妈妈和婆婆负责蛋糕和食物。<br />我用了一个晚上和早上的三个小时来预备食物。<br />还好有家婆帮忙,一切顺利的出炉了。现在的我头晕晕的。<br />*******<br />今年是stuart最后一年在Faith 庆祝生日。心里百感交集。这些同学和老师陪他好几年了。明年他们没有机会再一起庆祝生日。特别谢谢所有陪伴Stuart的学校老师,园长和同学。谢谢你们对他的爱戴包容和教导。<br />*******<br />今天早上我一到学校,他会主动来抱我,并且说:“今天是Stuart生日?”<br />他也会主动带领同学们一起唱生日歌。<br />我蛮喜欢他的同学们。每一个都会主动来打招呼,并且很亲切。<br />*******<br />希望stuart的六岁生日,能大大的进步。愿上帝亲自带领Stuart前面的道路。谢谢过去六年对他有恩惠的人们,愿上帝亲自赐福你们。<br />******<br />想起这六年,我们为他流了许多眼泪,操许多的心,愿上帝明白并且加添我们力量。也愿他的生命将来能够使许多人蒙福。</b></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-34255627997255936432016-08-03T00:48:00.002-07:002016-08-03T00:48:41.402-07:0029062016 有关shanice的成长记录<span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">对于孩子在学校的教育,我从来不敢干涉。(虽然有时候你觉得想要和学校一起同心配搭,但是往往是弄巧反拙,这教导我不要干涉是最好。)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">因为我知道,老师有老师的出发点,和教育方式。孩子也要承担及接受所有我们认为公平及不公平的对待。毕竟我自己也是一位教育者。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">*******</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">但是身为妈妈的,有时我也需要陪伴孩子一起流泪。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;">通常孩子回家告诉我们她在学校的经历,如果是被老师打或惩罚。。。通常父母都会说。。。一定是你有错,一定是你。。。。很少会好好心平气和的听孩子把整件事情听完,以及陪伴孩子分析,安慰,鼓励。</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; display: inline; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.32px;"><br />******<br />shanice一年级的时候,我也常常犯这个错,发现孩子在外面受伤了,回到家也得不到安慰。因为我们做父母的有时太担心管教的结果,而忘记陪伴孩子经历错误,及引导她走正确的路。换一句话说。。。其实我们成为父母的有时也很担心自己面子的问题。尤其我看我自己是传道人更是如此。(只是真的希望他们能被平常心对待,因为我在家里也没有对他们有特别的要求,他们也真的是普通人)<br />******<br />经过多番圣灵的责备,也看着孩子渐渐不开心。。。我心里也很难过。<br />******<br />今年我决定不走这样不好的路。好好放下自己的面子,好好的以shanice只有八岁的年龄来对待她。我发现我们的沟通开始像朋友了。关系改善很多。<br />*******<br />刚才她拨电话给我,在电话里大哭。<br />她说:“妈妈,今天我有两件事情很难过。第一件事情,我不小心说了谎话。第二件事情是我觉得我很冤枉被老师罚站在其它的班级。”<br />我。。。经过沟通调查。我发现她说谎话的原因因为害怕老师责骂,所以说了谎话。<br />第二个原因,她真的是被冤枉的。因为别班的老师发现他们班太吵闹,于是抓了两个替死鬼去其他班罚站,虽然他们尝试和老师解释,但是shanice说,她想起我说的。。。多说无益,所以她就保持沉默了。<br />*******<br />其实,我身为妈妈的立场。。。我难过,因为孩子们有时被处罚,是用羞辱的方式。这对孩子来说。。。这样的方式是很不服气的。<br />无论如何。。。。我告诉shanice,今天最重要你学习了什么功课?<br />她说她学习不说骗话。。。。<br />然后说了。。。我最安慰的一句话。。。。妈妈,我要告诉你的原因,我希望得到你和爸爸还有天父爸爸的原谅,因为我说了谎话,我心里没有平安,所以我急着认罪。<br />********<br />我说。。。如果你觉得很难过,要不要我去找老师谈谈(这是我试探她的感受和尽量同理心的问话。叫我去找老师,我还不敢。)<br />结果她说。。。。妈妈不用啦,老师已经很多工作了。我主要告诉你的原因,是希望你了解我和这件事情发生,我没有想要老师和我说对不起。因为我想老师也不懂为什么会发生这件事情。<br />********<br />写了写了。。。其实这就是成长和生活。<br />shanice。。。。生活就是这样,没有什么对和不对。。。对不对?<br />但是,圣经还是我们的准则,感谢主,世界如何改变,世界的价值观如何改变,唯有上帝的话语没有改变。我们秉持这样的教导就够了。</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-28521102968479714692016-05-24T20:08:00.000-07:002016-05-24T20:08:19.368-07:00Stuart在主里一切没有问题。<b><span></span></b><br />
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<b><span data-offset-key="fo87e-0-0"><span data-text="true">这几天有好些人告诉我们说:“Bong,我看Stuart不是自闭症,他应该只是比较慢而已。”</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="f834r-0-0"><span data-text="true">其实这一句话,我从他两岁半开始就听到现在,连不同的儿科医生也都这么说。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="7031d-0-0"><span data-text="true">也有另外一群人的说法,就是。。。。Stuart是自闭症。你千万别误了 医治的黄金时期。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="ck5g3-0-0"><span data-text="true">今年Stuart已经六岁了。黄金时期只剩下半年了。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="1ckau-0-0"><span data-text="true">上个星期当医生说他80八仙是自闭症时,我心里除了害怕还加上松了一口气。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="3403r-0-0"><span data-text="true">自闭症?我才发现我四周围许多人不认识这一种特殊特质的病例。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="24cdt-0-0"><span data-text="true">感谢主,我在神学院时期,我去过关怀中心做过义工,从那时开始我也有买很多类似的书籍来看。尤其从基督徒的家庭写出的个案最感动激励我。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="a72sk-0-0"><span data-text="true">自闭症有分重度,中度,和轻度。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="fqc9h-0-0"><span data-text="true">Stuart是属于轻度的。他目前的情况就是无法在人际关系上与人有很好的沟通。他很单纯(基本上,特殊孩童都是很天真单纯的)。除此之外,他不懂危险,他只知道自己的世界。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="15co4-0-0"><span data-text="true">只是要告诉大家,自闭症孩子如果是中度或轻度的,他们都是可以念书,写字,运动,唱歌等等,常常他们会做得比正常孩子更好。因为他们在他们有兴趣的事情上,专注力非常强。而且轻度的自闭症孩子仍然可以有说话的能力,只是他是片段式的言语。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="2b7vd-0-0"><span data-text="true">只是,在理解能力上他们是比较没有能力的。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="bt8vn-0-0"><span data-text="true">今天早上从不同的书籍看到许多基督徒家庭做的见证,虽然自闭症还找不出原因。现在每25分钟都会出现一个自闭症的孩童的比例里,未来自闭症孩童会越来越多。虽然自闭症还找不到原因,但是却有许多基督徒的家里的自闭症孩子是可以痊愈的,靠着上帝还是有许多奇迹出现。因为上帝是耶和华拉法,祂是大医生。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="7gu9h-0-0"><span data-text="true">许多基督徒做见证,自闭症孩童不可怕,他们是另类的祝福。只是妈妈爸爸耐心教导,他们还是可以健康喜乐长大。甚至许多自闭症的孩子长大之后还成为世界上许多伟大的专业人士,艺术家等等。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="66bvn-0-0"><span data-text="true">只是,为妈妈祷告。或许明年Stuart不能去华小小学的制度,这样可能会误了他。恳求天父给我们聪明智慧,给他去适当的学校;也让爸爸妈妈有经济能力可以栽培他。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="a8u51-0-0"><span data-text="true">无论未来怎样,上帝陪我们走,我们也能帮助别人。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="b4g6k-0-0"><span data-text="true">妈妈要专心预备讲章了,这个星期有两篇讲章要产生。因此,把自己内心的思绪整理完毕,从心出发。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span data-offset-key="4ujgk-0-0"><span data-text="true">感谢上帝赐予每一天。每一天都能经历上帝无比丰富的预备。</span></span></b></div>
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<b> 最近这几天,为了Stuart的个案,我比以前更努力看不同特殊孩童的研究书籍和个案。所谓特殊孩童包括了“自闭症、唐氏症、肢体瘫痪、听障、过动儿”或所谓【特殊需要Special Nees”的孩子成为特殊孩童。</b><br />
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<b> 虽然Stuart还没有正式被断定他是“特殊儿童”,但是以母亲的心情,我已经非常了解并且经历了当中的酸甜苦辣。</b><br />
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<b> 没有一个家庭他们想要自己的孩子要经历这帮的难处,但是如果上帝已经给予了,按照一班特殊孩童父母亲身经历分享,就是上帝也会给予他们极大的包容度和接纳度去接受自己的孩子,因为“爱”给予他们最大的力量来面对。</b><br />
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<b> 虽然如此,也没有一个特殊孩童的父母亲是不煎熬的。身为他们身边的亲朋好友,能做的就是给予他们一个肩膀靠靠,偶尔借借耳朵给他们诉苦,或者一个了解的眼神,有时伸出援手给予他们,或者帮助他们一下当他们需要的时候,我想这是最大的协助了。</b><br />
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<b> 停止对他们的控诉是绝对需要的!!!!</b><br />
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<b> 虽然一直以来,我都有做自我建设的工作。但是有时从一些很信任的朋友口中听到这样的话语,我还是会很受伤。</b><br />
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<b> 。。。。我的朋友说:“Bong,Stuart会变成这样是因为你工作的关系” !你应该为了他放掉你的工作,全时间看着他陪伴他。</b><br />
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<b> 。。。。。另外一个控诉,Bong,你知道吗?你把别人的孩子都照顾得很好,你看看,你自己的孩子呢?Stuart需要你,你应该全心全意照顾他!</b><br />
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<b> 。。。。。。Stuart会变成这样,一定是你们做了什么得罪了上帝?!</b><br />
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<b> 。。。。。。偶尔看到stuart在教会有不寻常的表现,或不合作的表现时,他们投来的眼神还会说。。。怎么他的父母没有好好教导他?</b><br />
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<b> 这些言语我们听多了。。。。眼泪自己吞以外,有时我也会看向天空对着上帝无言以对。每一句话就好像在我们的伤口撒盐一样。</b><br />
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<b> 还有好多沮丧的话语,有些我不想记得。</b><br />
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<b> 好吧。好吧。。。。</b><br />
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<b> 我为什么不放下工作来全时间看他?</b><br />
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<b>原因一:自闭症又称为孤独症。有好多家庭因为自己的孩子是自闭症,被亲朋好友孤立的</b><b>时候,导致成整个家庭也被边缘化了。</b><br />
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<b>原因二:我的工作是被呼召的,不是我要做就做,不要做就可以离开。</b><br />
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<b>原因三:我十多年前献身给上帝使用时,我那时候的男朋友,我现在的老公,问我:“</b><b> </b><b> 如</b><b>果你是献给上帝用,说好,多困难都要走下去!!!!对不对!我说对!</b><b>”</b><b>现在就算我有一个特殊孩童,我也要走下去。因为我的上帝答应我祂要为我负责</b><b>到底,我就要信到底。以前应许过,现在仍然应许,以后也会凭信心走下去。</b><br />
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<b>原因四:我的家婆和先生鼓励我,不要因为这个孩子把你整个人推翻了。Stuart有Stuart的</b><b>路要走,我也有我的路要走!Stuart不只是我的孩子,也是我们家的孩子,更是上</b><b>帝耶和华拉法的孩子。我们一起同心抚养他照顾他。因此,我也要正常有规律的过</b><b> 我生活,我的生活重心不可以乱。上帝,婚姻,家庭,孩子,事业都要平衡。而且</b><b>我还有另外两个孩子要照顾,尤其Shamus他的小弟还在喝着母奶。他们也都需要妈妈平衡分配。别担心,Stuart比谁都安逸的被照顾着。</b><br />
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<b>原因五:妈妈安顿好自己,才能好好守护Stuart。妈妈情绪稳定,stuart也会开心稳定。双</b><b>赢</b><b>的局面很重要。</b><br />
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<b>原因六:我需要让stuart跟上我们的脚步,让他自己知道他不是特殊的,他仍然是属于正常</b><b>的群体中。</b><br />
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<b>原因七:我仍然工作的原因,前提我必须付出多一倍的力气,走多一哩路。Stuart除了念书时间看不到我以外,还有星期天早上看不到我以外,偶尔妈妈出门看不到我以外,其他时间妈妈都会排开大大小小的时间完全陪伴他。一切都在协调中安然度过。而且妈妈仍然会把家务,婚姻顾好,让stuart能在爱的环境中长大。stuart也需要看到妈妈微笑开心的脸孔。</b><br />
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<b>原因八:Stuart的世界里,除了有妈妈,还有婆婆和爸爸,还有老师。他们都是Stuart的监护人和管理者。我不在的时候,他们都很尽责的帮助我,我想这都是上帝安排为我负责任到底的人。</b><br />
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<b> 当然这段时间,有很多人关心我,句句鼓励的话也会帮助特殊孩童的家庭。无论如何,我今天从特殊儿童的书籍里学习:</b><br />
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<b> 停止对特殊孩童的父母亲停止控诉,是我今天学习的。我或许是这方面的新手,但是却开始往这个领域走。特殊孩童现在是每150个婴儿就有一个的比例中,这个需要和情况是很特别的。或许我以后可以为这些孩子做些什么,尤其父母们的身心灵要被牧养。</b><b> 特殊孩童的父母们,我向你们敬礼。</b><br />
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<b> <br /> 看了许多书籍和个案之后,我发现stuart的问题应该不是自闭,而是说话方面有障碍,说话方面好像还没有开窍。其他的自闭症的特征好像比较没有什么看见。</b><br />
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<b> 妈妈会努力看看,六月开始他会开始去上有关说话的课程,愿大家在祷告中继续纪念我们。</b><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-41083063755254016992015-12-26T08:55:00.002-08:002015-12-26T08:55:38.347-08:00我和shanice的点滴 好久没有来到我的部落格园地写写我的事情。<br />
文字记录绝对是一件很棒的事情,不只可以练练文笔,更可以把当下的事情,心境做个记录,有时也可以变成一种见证。那里知道以后可能可以变成传记。呵呵。<br />
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话说,这一年来我和shanice关系一直处于在一个紧张的状态里。“管教”往往成为我们关系中的矛盾。<br />
有时,我也会失去耐心而向她大吼大叫,有时我也会恶言相向,有时我也会因为这样变得很沮丧,总觉得shanice七岁以前,我好像很有爱心,但是怎么会变成这样?<br />
担心Shanice的功课,品格,信仰,礼貌。一年级她学会偶尔用谎话来掩饰她的过错。她学会白眼,她学会冷漠,她学会尖锐。因为环境和朋友,老师的变化,她努力适应着,找自己的定位,也重新建立价值观。<br />
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2015年,是关键年也是她另外一个阶段的成长。<br />
她成长了:她不再为友谊动不动就哭泣。她学会为不同朋友的立场着想。<br />
她成长了:她开始主动做家务,虽然这是她比较弱的一环。<br />
她成长了;她开始懂得和stuart相处,虽然过去的打架造就她凶悍的一面,她常大喊:“我不要Stuart!”<br />
她成长了:“她会主动照顾shamus”<br />
她成长了:“她会主动和我谈信仰,她爱去教会。”<br />
她成长了;尤其今晚她问我很多神学问题,我都一一解答,然后她说:“妈妈,谢谢你,还好是你生我,不然我就不能好好认识天父,我爱你,爸爸和婆婆,是你们栽培了我。<br />
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kuching 行,我们无话不聊,至少这是我的目标,她真的很懂事和乖巧啊!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-17426064160201169282015-07-27T00:10:00.001-07:002015-07-27T00:10:50.122-07:00妈妈手札-Shanice参加GB <b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> </span></b><b><span style="color: #0c343d;"></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 昨天晚上,Shanice参加好女童子军的表演回到家,一整个晚上都好开心,一直说:“妈妈,我好喜欢参加GB!我好喜欢去教会!我好喜欢去诗班!我好喜欢去主日学!”。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 听到她这么说,心里感到很安慰。从她三岁时,不知为什么,她开始拒绝去教会,因为她说。。。我不喜欢人家说。。。你妈妈是不是Ah Bong?是不是汇珠干事?是不是。。。。所以她很讨厌人家这么问她。大了一点,有一天她在主日学不合作的时候,老师说:“我等一下去告诉你的妈妈,因为我知道你妈妈是谁!所以你给我小心一点!”从那一刻开始,她不喜欢去教会!每一次我们全家都要想尽办法拉她去,而且从来不妥协。我也不会去和老师商量,因为我告诉她,你是我的女儿是一件事实!人家这样问你,是看得起你!有什么好自怜自哀的!?上帝让你在我这里出生,有上帝的美意,不要感到压力,要感恩,因为有许多人因为妈妈的缘故,而监督你,爱你,你要感恩!</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 所以,你做每一件事情,是要为上帝做,想清楚做,不是你一个人说了算。而且不要太自我。</span></b><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> </b></span><b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 这当中,我们也有挣扎困难过。。。。过程是有点煎熬。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 因为我还要事奉的关系,所以有时真的不能全程陪伴和监督。还好我的爱人和家婆都很配合的帮助我,今天当我听到shanice说,她喜欢去教会时,我竟然是那么激动。昨晚我和她一起做睡前祷告。。。最后一句话她说。。。上帝啊,将来我要给主用!我真的很激动的抱她。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 旁人常常说。。。Bong啊,你管教shanice太严格!需要这样吗?她已经这么懂事了!我说。。。只有我懂我的孩子,什么东西需要严谨雕琢。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 她已经七岁了,再不严谨,我的黄金时期将要过去了。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 今天早上,一起去学校的时候,她又说了一句话。她说:“妈妈,我喜欢被管教!因为被管教时,我才知道我的品格态度好不好,所以我也喜欢去GB,我觉得自己过得很纪律!”</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 我想她应该会明白,自由和纪律的分别了!所以,目前她的态度有越来越好,但她仍然保持孩子般的喜乐单纯。我说。。。shanice,但愿你能为上帝而活,将来你的生命可以祝福许多人。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 谢谢她的成长过程中,有许多的伯乐。幼儿园的老师,小学的老师,教会的老师们,我向你们敬礼。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;">好久没有给这个花园写写东西。。。。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 每一次能在这里写写心里话,实在是我极度疲倦的时候,连最爱的音乐和烘焙都提不起劲来的时候,我就会正式出现在这里。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 看起来这个花园还蛮可怜的哦。。。话说,因为有面子书之后,这个部落格就好像要摆在一边了,对我来说,能来这里写写东西,是很慎重的事情,我才会来的。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 最近我一直用唐崇荣牧师的讲道集成为我灵修和思考信仰的一个途径。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 今天早上他说了一句话一直烙印在我脑海一整个早上。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 他说:“</span><span style="color: #660000;">上帝要恩待谁,就恩待谁。要怜悯谁,就怜悯谁!你不要妒忌他人,因为上帝多给他的,就向他多要</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">!”</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 是的,上帝要恩待谁就恩待谁。。。最重要上帝多给的,祂也会多要。这样又有什么可羡慕的呢?</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 很多人说,上帝赐福你好多。。。每一次听这一句话,我心里就颤抖一次。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 因为我的孤单你不明白,我的劳累你不会明白,我为上帝多走几里路你不会感到兴趣。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 因此我不多说我自己的情况,免得有被论断,被评论。。。说真的,生理上我还真的累了。只是心灵上,因为常常和上帝保持密切的关系而还可以撑住。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 这个礼拜的辅导个案接不完,有用电话的,有会面的。。。。需要太大,而我个人有限。虽然如此能帮助青少年人还是不错的。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 单单今天早上我就接了三通电话,会面一个。。。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 虽然今年拿无薪假期,我还是一样忙碌。。。只是精神真的是没有这么紧绷了。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 心里的最大担忧,还是“Stuart”。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 有时候,我真的不明白,上帝为什么给我一个这样的孩子。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 你说他是特殊儿吗?他不是。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 你说他是自闭症吗?他不是。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 你说他是有什么病吗?他不是。。。。。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 他就是比较慢而已。。。。。。我们最需要给他的,就是忍耐!!!除了忍耐还是忍耐。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 或许,有些朋友曾经问我。。。好像你很少用部落格记录他什么事情。。。ya,这是真的。因为他的生活都很规律,每一天重复一模一样的事情,日复一日,没有任何新的的东西。这就是Stuart。</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>1. 每一天一定十一点睡觉</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>2. 他喜欢和婆婆一起睡觉</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>3. 他每一天一定要检查家里每一个家电,门都确定关上,还有该摆在那里的东西归位了才要睡觉。晕。有时因为这样,我们全部人都像保镖这样陪他这里看看,那里逛逛才进行该进行的东西。这当然也花掉很多时间,有时也会让我们失去耐心。有时大家赶着出门,他仍然每一样东西都要检查一遍就会把我们气得牙痒痒。</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>4.现在讲比较多我们听得懂得话,但是很常时候还是讲很多外星语。</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>5.出去外面或者一些亲朋好友还是常常置疑他的情况时,我心里就是很苦。。。。我要怎样讲?</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>6.后年他上一年级了,如果不能适应怎么办?想到这里我就哭出来了。</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>7.他不喜欢去他不熟悉的地方,容易失控而大喊或者乱了方寸。</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b>8.。。。。。。。。。。。</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> 说不下去了。。。。。心里的担忧交给上帝吧,因为是上帝创造祂的,上帝比我更懂他,上帝比我更担心他。我们成为父母的只有帮助他,爱他,包容忍耐他。只有这样了。</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> Stuart,你五岁了,希望以后妈妈回头看的时候,能惊讶的大声赞美上帝,因为妈妈是愚昧而不明白上帝旨意的人,而你是大大被上帝重用的人。</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> Stuart, 生日快乐,只要你健康就好。今天早上,上帝就让妈妈看到一个身体有残缺的孩子。。。我为此向上帝认罪。。。我看到那个妈妈好有耐心照顾那个孩子。。。妈妈真的很惭愧。</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> 相信Stuart是我们的天使,没有人可以取代他,不会因为他难搞,而抹杀我们对他的爱。</b></span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"><br /></span></b>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-15682207023615865322015-06-10T23:49:00.000-07:002015-06-10T23:49:20.153-07:0006062015 家<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">累了,倦了,至少还有家可以回,有家可以休息,有家可以</span><wbr style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; color: #141823; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">躲,值得感恩!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #141823; line-height: 1.38;"> </span><b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;">慢慢的,你会发现孩子升到小学的时候,所面对的问题不是一两样而已,而是好多东西可以让你操心。(不管你要不要操心,都得操心。)</span></b></div>
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<b><b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"> Shanice升上小学,一开始我们担心她的程度,然后字体,然后人际关系,然后品格,然后考试,然后早睡早起到吃东西的问题。</span></b></b></div>
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<b><span style="color: #274e13;"><b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"> 我渐渐明白。。。。成为父母,不是我过去所想的那么轻松。</span></b></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;">当然,我也知道现在孩子所面对的挑战不是小的。。。。第一个学期考试的成绩分发下来了,Shanice的程度大概都是86-100分左右,除了数学是78分以外。</span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"> 她真的很害怕数学,而且现在小学一年级的数学连我们这些做父母的都觉得难,也觉得复杂许多。特别是数学应用题的中文表达,连大人都觉得复杂,小孩子怎么会那么容易明白?</span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;">因此,我一边看她的考卷,也一边肯定她说。。。你怎么这么厉害,这样的题目都会做。。?她说:“是吗?这样叫厉害?我的朋友他们比我更厉害。。。我晕。”</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"> 学校老师改考卷也特别严谨,字体不端正扣分,不清楚扣分,字体不够紧密扣分,写的太紧密扣分,写太大扣分,写太小扣分。。。。haiz,也苦了shanice。。。过去的幼稚园我们从来没有纠正过她的字体。到了补习班补习老师帮助我们一直改正她的字体,必须写在线上。。。错了,擦掉再写。。。她好多次是边哭边写。。。变得不快乐是在所难免。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"> 我身为妈妈,也不想这样逼她。。。。但是看到她跌跌撞撞的,我们无论如何也要扶她一把,让她有信心一点。成为父母的我们绞尽脑汁,帮助她努力学习以外,也让她有适当的放松。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;">她最爱游泳,GB,主日学,诗班,看Running man,做手工,听故事。我们都尽量满足她。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;">看吧。。。说到这里,我要向全世界的妈妈爸爸致敬,你们真的很辛苦,忍耐的帮助孩子们成长。没有在当中的,真的不可以随意论断批评。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"> 我现在不敢说那一个父母的教育不好。。。。只有自己最了解自己孩子的性格和极限。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;">父母不易为,那些有工作的母亲更是在时间分配上很大的挑战和牺牲。</span></span></b></div>
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<b style="line-height: 1.38;"><span style="color: #274e13;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"> 无论如何,自己也要常常有出口发泄一下,调整一下重新出发。我的纾解压力方法就是烘焙啦。</span></span></b></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-6056968332203931092015-05-18T01:40:00.001-07:002015-05-18T01:40:27.386-07:00六个月的shamus生病了!<span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 昨晚(13052015)Shamus一直咳嗽,然后吐了四次的。今天(14052015)终于看医生了。六个月后的他终于生病,也开始出了四颗牙齿。体重掉了一点点,只剩下9.2kg。等医生已经将近一个小时的他,累得睡着了。</span></b></span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"> 她是第一个抱你的女人,第一个吻你的女人,第一个叫你宝</span><wbr style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">贝的女人;她是唯一一个永远不会嫌弃你离开你的女人,唯</span><wbr style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">一一个全心全意相信你的女人,唯一一个不求回报照顾关心</span><wbr style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">你的女人。她是你生命里最重要的女人,她的名字叫:妈妈</span><wbr style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">。母爱似海,把祝福传递下去,愿天下母亲身体健康,祝母</span><wbr style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></wbr><span class="word_break" style="background-color: white; display: inline-block; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">亲节快乐.</span></span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"> 这张相片是Louis 叔叔帮我们拍的,在美安堂的妈妈室里拍的。也是妈妈和Shamus一起度过的第一个母亲节,谢谢天父把shamus给我们。</span></span></b>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-7906773504647166602015-05-11T01:24:00.000-07:002015-05-11T01:24:04.103-07:0011052015 Shamus 六个月了<b><span style="color: #134f5c;">大家好啊!我是Shamus,我今天终于六个月了!hehe。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #134f5c;">谢谢我的爸爸妈妈,婆婆,哥哥姐姐,保姆一家,教会哥哥姐姐,叔叔姨姨们对我的爱戴。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #134f5c;">如今我要继续靠上帝的恩典,继续成长长大。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 好久没有写部落格的我,早上灵修为一切来感恩的时候,才想起上帝是如何带领我和Shanice度过这几个月一起适应一年级生活的我们。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 真正担心她会不会适应一年级生活的我,是在去年2014年10月份左右,那时我预备要生Shamus了,心情除了紧张以外,也非常担心shanice。</span></b><b><span style="color: #0c343d;">或许她是我的第一个孩子,而且成为父母的我们,也知道孩子要迈入新的阶段,的确也需要一些的预备和面对一些的挑战。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 从幼儿园跨入小学,从轻松学习的制度到规矩严厉的制度,从8点上课到6:50am上课。。。。课本的转换等等。。。对shanice和妈妈都是一个很大的挑战和一些的害怕。</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b> 生了Shamus,我以为我可以好好坐月子,没有想到,整个月子都在担心shanice。</b></span><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心一:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">为了让她能提早适应一年级的制度,我就听取朋友的建议,给她在十二月的时候,能去补习中心有一个月为新生做的预备班。结果整个月子里,每一天早上,shanice都是哭啼啼的去,而且也无法起身。。。。一到早上,妈妈就要晕了,因为要照顾3个孩子的不同需要和情绪。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心二:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">从婴儿时期开始,shanice就是属于比较会睡觉的孩子。她只要躺在床上,几分钟就睡着了,而且是很难叫醒她的。坐在车里,只要车开动一下子,她也睡着了。宝宝时期,有时她失眠,他爸爸只要带她坐在车里面,转一圈也睡着了。。。。睡眠这个问题,让我觉得shanice是很特别的孩子。但是来到一年级,她需要很有纪律的面对她的睡眠问题。不能晚睡了。。。。之前妈妈常常晚上都有工作。。。现在不行这样了。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 九点半预备躺在床上,早上六点起床。(还好,我们的家去学校只要走路3分钟)。但是这样的睡眠时间和早起,的确也是一个很大的挑战。。。从初期的拖拖拉拉,到现在妈妈只要叫她一次,她就醒了。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 当然这样的果效,妈妈需要花很多时间精力和方法。对妈妈来说,小的shamus有喝夜奶的习惯,所以妈妈晚上都不是睡很好,所以要这么早起来叫醒shanice也有一些困难。有时我的心情也不是很好。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 后来我就用set 闹钟的方法。叫她起床有set一个二十分钟的时间是梳洗,换装,喝水,梳头,穿鞋的一个过程。二十分钟后能顺利出门,我们就可以买一个小小礼物给她。这一招很有用,你会看到她一直问,时间到了没有,到现在,她不问时间了,因为她大概知道做一件事情需要多少事情来完成。而且你会看到很有精神的完成所有东西,然后开心的出门上学。妈妈我也轻松许多,不用一直监督她。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心三:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">用钱的方式。在幼稚园里,我从来不需要为她预备点心,因为学校有提供。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 但是到了一年级,她有点像放出去的鸟这样。就算我们在家里为她预备点心,她也不想带去。因为她想去食堂买东西吃。或许因为好奇,我们也就成全她,让她去试试买。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 在用钱上,因为她还不懂怎样算,常常把五毛钱的东西就给老板RM1钱,然后就跑了。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 有时也会向人讨钱,不够一毛钱就讨。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 有时班上同学也会分钱给他们。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 从一月到现在,我都不断在金钱的课题上,不断的教导她。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 对她来说,钱就好像食物一样,可以分享来分享去。但是对我们来说,钱是可以引诱你做犯罪的事情。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 慢慢的,偷钱和讲骗话的课题是连贯的。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 在这件事情上,我和外子不断教导她,现在的她对钱这件事情比较有概念了,也不敢拿别人的钱等等。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 现在回想起来,好像那时的我反应太大了,其实在她的世界里,一切是如此单纯。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心四:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">补习的问题:以前我会想,不要给shanice过补习的生活,但是到一年级的时候,我发现我自己竟然不了解现在马来西亚的教育制度了。好多东西不一样了。而且在家里监督孩子念书的事情上,常常把我和她的关系拉得很紧绷。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 后来,我们想想,让她去补习吧。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 在补习班里,老师们纠正她的字体,笔顺,读音,做好多课外的课业。</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 起初,我的确很心疼她。。。。看她的确蛮累的。好多次我想放弃让她补习。进人四月,我问她。。。妈妈看你适应读书的生活,不然不用去补习了可以吗?她说不要,我要补习,在补习班里,我比较认真,因为我会怕那个老师,如果在家里我会一直想看电视,想吃东西,想睡觉,还是补习班好。而且在补习班里,我也可以把在学校的功课做完才回家。回到家里,我就可以拼命玩了。是的,的确。。。回到家里,我就不需要一直为了功课和她关系弄的很紧张。而且我发现她现在做功课可以又快又整齐,而且懂得自己收拾书包。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心五:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">拖拖拉拉的问题:发呆拖拖拉拉的确是shanice的一个不好习惯的问题。现在妈妈不断想不同的游戏来帮助她。用闹钟,用比赛,用奖励。。。目前有比较好一些。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心六:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">礼貌品格的问题:shanice从小喜欢和人打招呼。但是到了六岁开始,她感到害羞了,而且有时脑袋喜欢放空,而常常忽略和人打招呼。对我来说偶尔忘记我可以接受,但是看到人,我还是会提醒她打招呼。对我来说,这个还蛮重要。我比较看重她品格的问题,多过功课。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: red;"> 担心七:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">说骗话的把关,有时她会担心我们骂她而不说实话,我常常责备或处罚她的时候,不是针对她买了什么,或做了什么,而是因为她说骗话。所以,我说不管怎么样都不可以说骗话。她说就算我知道你会骂我也不可以?我说是的。。。你做了一件错事一定要承担后果,但是说骗话的后果会更严重。</span></b><br />
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<b style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red;"> 担心八:</span><span style="color: #0c343d;">和妈妈的关系:刚上一年级的她,我承认我太过紧张,有时我也发现我们的关系变得很紧绷。渐渐地,我也调整自己,也常常和她讨论我们目前的关系,彼此饶恕和接纳。因为妈妈还要照顾两个弟弟,有时真的无法分身做那么仔细的事情,也无法全心全意,我请求她能谅解,并且和我一起合作。毕竟她还是小孩子,我需要知道,不要要求和期望太多。shanice已经做得很好了。我也学习控制自己的脾气,希望Shanice能刚强一点。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> haiz,说了那么多,我真的发现,我们做父母的能力真的有限。婴儿时期,真的发现孩子真的好可爱,像Shamus现在只要和我笑一下,心就融化了。但是到了Stuart这个时期,我们的头就大了,因为他不断挑战你的极限和不在控制之内的,我们称他顽皮。到Shanice这个阶段孩子,我们要不断把关她的品格,监督和帮助她建立正确的价值观和协助她的学业。</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 妈妈真的有限,再加上需要附上自己的睡眠,健康。牺牲好多东西。。。。虽然如此,我相信每一个父母都是如此辛苦的。所以,父母们加油啊!</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"> 现在我要做的,就是赶快调适好自己,学习和shanice做朋友,更谢谢常常在我身边帮助我的天使们,谢谢上帝不断用圣灵提醒我好多东西。我会越来越好的。</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0c343d;"><b><br /></b></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11741994707794284611noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5323602461958368754.post-90380383705257617722015-04-06T23:34:00.001-07:002015-04-06T23:34:23.456-07:0005042015 忙碌的妈妈。。。。<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">成为三位孩子的妈妈,真的不是一件很轻松的事情。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">三个孩子,有不同的需要,有不一样的照顾,有不一样的情况发生,对我来说,他们的需要都是很重要的。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">只是,有时真的苦了大人。。。孩子是不会体贴父母的需要,他们只会在意他们的需要有没有被父母满足。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">常常在照顾他们的时候,我和外子有时也会很沮丧。。。。有时累得躺在床上的时候,我们会彼此问。。。为什么我们要这么累?</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">养儿防老吗?别了吧。。。有听说过吗?一对父母可以照顾十个孩子,但是十个孩子却不能把一对父母照顾好。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">对我来说。。。。孩子是传承。孩子更是上帝给我们的产业,我们是管家。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">疲倦的时候,想想他们可爱的样子,有时还是可以迷迷糊糊撑过去的。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">不要问我,真的那么累吗?哈。。。成为三个孩子的父母都懂孩子除了可爱以外,还有很多事情要处理的。尤其在幼儿时期,有许多棘手的事情要教导,要修剪和引导,在教导他们的当儿,上帝也不断修剪我们成为父母的品格和建立生命。。。。。所以真的有忙不完的。。。。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">时间。。。就在不知不觉中溜走了,而孩子也不知不觉中长大了。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">唯有祷告,我才能把一切忧虑交给上帝。。。。</span><br style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;" /><span style="background-color: white; font-family: helvetica, arial, 'lucida grande', sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">妈妈我,要渐渐恢复正常生活,虽然疲倦也要逼自己过正常生活。目前我最大的挑战就是要控制自己的情绪,脾气和注意自己对孩子说话的语气。</span></span></b><br />
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大家好啊!祝大家元宵节快乐,今年一定要丰丰富富,圆圆满满。<br />话说前阵子我得了手足口症,经过妈妈的照顾和亲朋好友的关爱,我终于康复了。<br />之后又被蚊子叮得满头包。<br />昨天我开始感冒流鼻涕了。<br />哈,妈妈说不怕不怕,因为生病也是成长的一部分哦。<span class="text_exposed_hide" style="display: inline-block; margin-right: 4px;">...</span></div>
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<span style="color: #141823;"> </span><b><span style="color: #0c343d;">今天早上终于开始好好运动,从早上六点把shanice送去学校,再把stuart的东西安顿好,再把Shamus送去保姆家,然后和朋友约好一起运动,之后去人造湖再跑一跑,看着美丽的风景,才意识到我不用再赶着上班的日子是如此写意。<br /> 一边跑步,一边整顿自己与上帝的关系,再好好听自己心里的声音是如此重要。<br />回顾这十多年在职场的工作,想想为什么会累?<br />前天我很生气,因为一位很好的朋友,又开始毁谤我,已经和她沟通很多次,还是如此。真的很生气很生气,结果就去烘焙坊做了蛋糕。在那过程里,我问上帝,为什么这一位朋友是这样的。我如此真心,信任对待她,她却要屡次伤害我?这几天我嘴巴又超级痛,因为如此,我选择沉默不说话,这是好事,说多错多。<span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"><br /> 开始去思考,原来人成长了,岁数到了某个年龄,你希望你交的朋友都能和你交心的时候,结果不是这样的。<br /> 上帝在那天告诉我。。。。“孩子,你还学不会这个功课吗?在这个世界上没有谁是最知心的朋友,除了基督耶稣。这几年你知道为什么你会累吗?因为你太在意人的感受,人的要求和期望,人的眼光,然后不断去满足不同人的需要。虽然你慢慢明白这些道理,但是还是太慢了。”<br /> 今天跑步之后,去处理儿童诗班的诗袍之后,回到家,我继续处理自己心里的声音。发现。。。。原来我前天生气的那一个人,是因为我太在意她了,因为我把友情看重了。试试想想,这几年充斥在身边的好多人,岂不是都是如此,说来说去?在她的面前说。。。wah!你煮的东西好好吃,转一个头来说。。。“能吃的吗?”;又或者赞她之后,又褒贬她。又有一些人在你面前说那个人多不好,结果看到她头转一下又用很欣赏的眼神看待那个人。(有时想想,身边也太多精神分裂症的人)<br />又有一些人,嘴巴挂着我们是好朋友,但是却利用她的名字做不同的事情。<br />又有一些人,专门搜寻别人的facebook,部落格,然后搬弄是非的到处乱说。又有一些被害妄想症的人。<br />人际关系的脆弱,不是三言两语能说得明白,但却慢慢的令人累了。<br />这样的关系,在家庭,在亲朋好友,在情侣,职场,在教会都不免被牵涉到。<br />夫妻彼此指责,婆媳,女婿彼此不能相处,情侣的不信任,不断的查询,职场不断比较和要求,弟兄姐妹彼此的不信任,教会弟兄姐妹里外不一的相处都是人际关系破裂的一大点。</span></span></b></div>
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<b><span style="color: #0c343d;">这只蚊子也太狠了吧?!把我吻得那么四方八面?!它有这样爱我吗?还是看我这幅脸可爱好欺负。不要让我再见到你,不然我我!我我要吃了你!问题是我不知还会认得你吗?!</span></b></div>
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